Monday, October 11, 2010

Here, There, Sugars Everywhere



Lot’s of sugar daddies and sugar babies prefer certain areas for making arrangements more than others. One sugar baby says that after moving to LA from NYC, she noticed some differences between the women in both places:

“New York SB’s are much more sophisticated, wear darker clothes and usually have darker hair…” - Loni

While there are endless stereotypes about people in different places, there are certain places in Sugarworld with unique reputations…

Have you found a certain area/region where the sugar is sweeter?

What impressions do you get from sugars in different parts of the US or the word? Are you open to dating sugars outside of your country?

How’s the sugar been for you lately?

Tyra Banks Sugar Babies Reunion Stir


Many here have noticed Tyra’s apparent infatuation with online sugar daddy dating, especially during her shows’ most recent and finale season. Here’s how one sugar baby described her discovery of the Sugarbowl through Tyra’s repeats:

“It’s funny to see how Tyra reacts to the sugar lifestyle. You would think she’d be more familiar with the concept considering her own lifestyle, spending so much time around older wealthy men and young beautiful women who have lived the life most sugar babies can only dream of. I just want to thank the people on this blog for proving to me that there are indeed real, and compassionate people in this sugar world… wouldn’t necessarily know that after watching Tyra…” - Sugarberry04

What sugar topics are you most curious about? How to negotiate an arrangement? Fake SD’s or SB’s?

Sugar Daddy Relationships Gaining Respect, Drawing Envy

Sugar Daddy Relationships Gaining Respect, Drawing Envy

Sugar daddies have been receiving more recognition for their role in society than ever before, with more information about the real people who live the sugar lifestyle being shared and discussed online, inbooks, on TV, in the movies, and in hair salons and coffee shops.

It’s estimated that over 3 million sugar daddy and baby profiles have been created since 2007.

The fact that some women are seeking sugar daddies despite not having any financial need doesn’t come as a surprise to many here, but non-sugars are often unaware of how SD/SB relationships can be just as complex and varied as any other relationship configuration.

Why Sugar Daddies are ‘In’:

Billionaire Heiress Paris Hilton with her Malaysian Billionaire Sugar Daddy Taek Jho Low (on his yacht).

Showing Off Sugar Daddies: Even ‘self-made’ millionaires like Paris Hilton are finding sugar daddies to help make life a little sweeter. Paris’ new sugar daddy recently spent nearly $5 million on champagne for her and her friends.

College Degree’s Don’t Guarantee Financial Stability: While having a college degree is still a definite advantage in today’s workplace, it doesn’t always equate to a high paying job (especially if your degree has anything to do with kids…)

Perhaps the underlying reason behind much of societies contempt for the sugar lifestyle is envy. Sugar relationships are constantly being glamorized, vilified, sugar-coated and scapegoated, but the sugar phenomena is no trivial matter.

Do you think society gives fair treatment to those in sugar daddy relationships?

How would people you know really feel about your sugar-life if they knew about it? Would some of them be jealous?

How is your sugar daddy dating going?

You Never Know Who You’ll Meet on SA

“SeekingArrangement is like a box of chocolates … you never know what you’re gonna get, but you can bet it’s gonna be sweeeet.”SFSB

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SA Founder & CEO Brandon Wade with Tatyana at the SA Party, 8/04/2010

Dating people online can be full of surprises, perhaps even more so in the sugar dating world.

And as the founder of SeekingArrangement.com, I have from time to time used the sugar dating site as a Sugar Daddy. Like everyone, I have had my share of good and bad sugar experiences. Fortunately for me, it’s the good experiences that have been the most memorable. Over the past few years, I have been fortunate to meet some of the most amazing and interesting people, as well as celebrities in their own right.

Over a year ago, I asked a Sugar Babe out for dinner when I was in Las Vegas. She took me to LAX – the nightclub at the Luxor Casino – where she was a VIP hostess. Six months later, I found out she was one of Tiger Wood’s mistresses.

On my flight to Istanbul this past summer, I sat beside a multi-millionaire who is also one of Wall Street’s most well known fund managers. About halfway on our flight, he asked me what I did for a living, and after I told him I run SeekingArrangement.com, he revealed to me that he has been a Sugar Daddy member on the website for over 2 years and is a big fan.

I know for a fact that there are quite a few members of the Forbes’ 400 richest list on this website. A sugar baby once told me she met one of the founders of Skype through SA. Yet another told me she met a big time Hollywood producer. And as recently as a few weeks ago, another sugar baby told me she came across one of the richest men in the world here.

For this and many other reasons, I have titled this post: You never know who you’ll meet on SeekingArrangement.

I truly believe that there are many amazing, famous, and ultra-wealthy people lurking on the website, and if you have not found the one, I urge you to be patient and to start writing to all the other members out there, because while there may be some bad apples (just as there are anywhere else), there are also some amazingly wonderful catches out here…. on SeekingArrangement.com.

Are there any interesting people you have met through SeekingArrangement.com?

Rachel Uchitel Agrees to Strip for Playboy

Rachel Uchitel agrees to strip for Playboy…right now anyway. Rachel was asked Friday about the deal but she didn’t make much comment, leading to speculation about exactly what the deal entails. It’s a loose agreement… More pictures of Rachel after the tease…
With Rachel’s deal, she can back out anytime. So, if she gets cold feet or if Tiger Woods’ team hears about it and doesn’t like it, she can cancel without a contract penalty.

With Rachel’s deal, she can back out anytime. So, if she gets cold feet or if Tiger Woods’ team hears about it and doesn’t like it, she can cancel without a contract penalty.

A source close to the mag tells us Rachel has the right to pull out any time before the shoot goes down — which is in three weeks.

We’re also told Rachel won’t be baring it all — just the backside … and the topside.

No word on when the spread will run in the mag.

So, she is limited to what she will show, if she even shows at all! Rachel has a great deal there…I wonder how Hugh Hefner got his arm twisted in to this one! Rachel’s TV show must have gotten canned, but pictures always work! If Rachel does this, do you think it will be a popular issue?

For Love of Power

It’s not only money that attracts sugar babies to sugar daddies. If you can ask famous people who have had sugar daddys, they will tell you the same. These famous people already have money. And most of the time being famous is synonymous to being wealthy (not all the time, though).

So what else do you think is the reason why sugar babies are attracted to sugar daddies? The answer to that is power. Here in our world the more money you have the more powerful you are. And that’s why famous people who have had sugar daddys maintain a millionaire sugar daddy relationship. Having a powerful ally is good for one’s career, prestige, or influence.

Stars like Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas, Calista Flockhart and Harrison Ford, Celine Dion and her husband/manager, Rene Angelil are good examples of May-December relationships in Hollywood – or even TIGER WOODS!?? These couples’ unions are like the merger of two powerful clans, making them more powerful. You see, in Hollywood, there are a lot of potential sugar daddys to choose from. From big time veteran actors to production executives.

But how can a sugar baby outside of Tinseltown find her powerful sugar daddy? Easy. All you have to do is create a free profile at www.sugarsugar.com, in case you don’t have one yet, and start searching for the sugar daddy who can provide you with the influence you are looking for. Don’t forget, www.sugarsugar.com, the best sugar daddy dating site for you.

Wanted: Married Sugar Daddies

These days, gorgeous young women who want to make their lives easier look for a sugar daddy. Married sugar daddies are almost often the kind of sugar daddies these young women have a mutually beneficial relationship with.

A majority of the sugar babies engage in this kind of relationship for security purposes only. Some do it for love, and quite a handful are simply in lust. But whatever a young girl’s reason is, sugar daddy dating is happening everywhere and it is here to stay.

Now going back to sugar daddies. Married sugar daddies interested in extra marital dating are preferred by sugar babies because they are discreet. They won’t go around telling everybody that they are banging some sugar baby because they don’t want their wives to find out about it. Now if they start blathering about their extramarital activities after downing a bottle of Jack Daniels… that’s another story. But overall, married men are a lot more discreet since they have something to protect.

If you are a sugar baby looking for a discreet, mutually beneficial relationship with a sugar daddy, married sugar daddies are the best type you should go looking for. You can find a lot of them at www.sugarsugar.com. Search for them on this site.

One day I was asked by my cousin if I had a boyfriend. I told her that I “kinda” have a boyfriend. She looked puzzled by my answer, so I told her that I am into mutually beneficial relationships.

“What is a mutually beneficial relationship?” she asked. I don’t know if she would understand it without being totally judgmental. But I told her anyway, keeping my fingers crossed that she would understand. Luckily she did. And not only did she understand, but now she also wants to have a mutually beneficial relationship herself!

I asked my sugar daddy if he has other sugar daddy friends whom he can introduce my cousin to. So when we went on a double date with my sugar daddy’s friend, things went smoothly. In fact, my cousin and the sugar daddy were inseperable that night. I think they hit it off quite well.

One time, I saw my cousin in front of her computer looking at a sugar daddy website. She told me that we should sign up and get a free profile there. She told me that if our mutually beneficial relationships didn’t work out well, this site would be our fall back. There are a lot of sugar daddies in there looking for sugar babies. And I think there’s no harm in having a fall back so we signed up. A day after creating our profiles, we already got messages from a number of sugar daddies.

It’s quite funny how things turned out. I was afraid my cousin would find out about my sugar daddy relationship and judge me harshly for it. Now, we’re both in mutually beneficial relationships and enjoying them. I asked my cousin again, “what is a mutually beneficial relationship to her?” She proudly answered, “It’s about getting the things that you want.”

Most of members already transfered to another sugar daddy dating site called sugarsugar.com because it has more profiles than sugardaddyforme.
is a ratio of 8:1 sugar babies to sugar daddies. Having 8 sugar babies for every sugar daddy is not bad at all. Actually it’s too much. I myself only need one sugar baby because I’m focusing more on quality than quantity.

My other buddies, on the other hand, are having the time of their lives getting as many sugar babies as they can get. For them, more is better. My friends are a bunch of show offs. They just want to parade their sugar babies so that some colleagues of ours find themselves drooling with envy.

Sugar Babies on Tyra Banks Show


I had planned to post another article building on yesterday’s sugar daddy dating advice article about taking your sugar baby to a hotel, but something came up and I wanted to make sure I let the entire SugarSugar.com community know about it. Apparently, today’s Tyra show is about sugar daddy dating.

I’m not what you would call a Tyra Banks fan. But I do love watching trashy talk shows trying to rip apart sugar daddy dating and, in general, getting it thrown back in their faces. What these talk show hosts like Tyra Banks don’t understand is that there’s a logical reason to be a sugar baby. And those sugar babies aren’t getting taken advantage of. It’s a mutually beneficial relationship with a rich benefactor — the keywords being “mutually beneficial.” The sugar babies who date wealthy older men know exactly what they’re doing, and just because Tyra and her morality patrol crew might want to exploit that concept because they think the public will gasp in horror, I bet a lot more women than they think come away from watching these types of shows thinking “hmmm… maybe I should try being a sugar baby.”

If you’re one of those women who watched today’s Tyra Banks show about Sugar Babies and you’re reading this sugar daddy blog post right now, click on over to SugarSugar.com, sign up for your free sugar baby profile, and see why the sugar babies on Tyra’s show are turning to wealthy men to help pay for college tuition.

Even Hollywood Likes Sugar Daddy Dating

By now you’ve surely heard about the sex scandal between the husband of Oscar winner Sandra Bullock, Jesse James, and his slew of mistresses. But did you know some of those mistresses were sugar babies? According to a Huffington Post article, Melissa Smith, a Jesse James Mistress, is also a millionaire dating sugar baby. Yup, even in Hollywood — or should I say “especially in Hollywood” — people are playing the online sugar daddy dating game. So for everyone who wants to be just like the stars, well, by using a sugar baby dating website like SugarSugar.com, you can be just like the stars.

Better yet… by using a sugar daddy dating site like SugarSugar.com you might just end up dating the same sugar baby as some of the stars. And remember, if she’s good enough to satisfy a celebrity who can get girl he wants, she’s bound to be doing something right where it counts most. I’m just sayin’…

So sign up for a SugarSugar.comfree SugarSugar.com membership today and maybe you’ll get one degree close to Kevin Bacon.

Why Is Finding A Sugar Daddy So Much Easier Than Finding A Date On A Regular Dating Site!!

In comparison to other dating websites, finding a Sugar Daddy is much easier and much more fun. Traditional online dating sites like eHarmony and Match.com are geared towards the average person, but Sugar Daddy dating sites attract only the best, wealthiest and most attractive individuals. Instead of slugging through profiles of the mediocre to find a hot date, you will find a plethora of Sugar Daddies and Babies ready for a good time.

First, traditional dating sites attract people of average social standing mired in mediocrity whereas those who use Sugar Daddy dating sites are crème de la crème. In effect, this makes it simple to find a date on a Sugar Daddy website because you won’t find yourself sorting through boring profiles; instead, you will find only clients of high caliber. If you’re on a site like Mutual Arrangements for instance, you already have similar aspirations and refined tastes as your fellow patrons.



Secondly, the mediocre people on traditional dating sites are looking for a steady date and a sedate future versus a partner with spunk with whom they can travel, let loose, and have fun. Again, the odds of finding an exciting partner in crime are much higher with Sugar Daddy dating sites. If you settle for traditional sites, you will not experience all life has to offer whereas the high-society jetsetters and world travelers who create profiles on Sugar Daddy dating sites grab life by the horns.

Third, eHarmony and Match cater to people of standard income with regular office jobs. Sugar Daddy sites, however, attract a clientele base well-established in a professional environment with money to spend as well as people with goals and desires. Because of this, Sugar Daddies are ready to spend money and are looking for reasons to take you out. Traditional dating may connect you with other singles through the internet, but their follow-through in person is weak; the only thing Sugar Daddy dating will leave weak is your knees as your mutual arrangement will not only deliver an online connection, but also flowers on your first date.


Finally, Sugar Daddy sites attract not only the wealthy, but also the attractive. Glitz is naturally paired with glamour. In contrast, traditional dating sites are rife with clients of average appearance – or worse. If you’re looking for a companion who will turn heads in a crowd, you will surely find him or her through Sugar Daddy dating sites.

Why Are Young Women Attracted To Wealthy Men!!

A man with money will never have trouble finding a pretty little date on Friday night; nor will he find it hard to have a young, beautiful blonde blow on his dice at Vegas. Young women are naturally attracted to a man with money, regardless of his age.

A man with money is attractive, of course, because he has money. And, when one has money, one has security. In an insecure economic age, a man with wealth is a safeguard against the very real threat of losing the ability to afford rent and food. Young women burdened with the debt of college loans can cover their basic needs and ward off debt by making an arrangement with a wealthy man. And, with this security, a woman can rest easy. While security and comfort are not necessarily synonymous, the latter can be a result of the former. When a young woman is guaranteed comfort, she can then pursue her goals with peace of mind.


Women are not simply creatures of comfort and every woman, no matter how fiscally conservative, makes excuses to build a wardrobe. Young women, however, are more particular about wanting to adorn their good looks with expensive taste; a wealthy man can provide this luxury. The only thing more therapeutic than a shopping trip is a shopping trip on someone else’s dime. On the same token, wealthy men promise an exciting lifestyle. Because they have already worked their fingers to the bone to make their millions, wealthy men can afford to let loose. This carefree front is attractive to young women who dream of sharing excitement and luxurious get-aways with a fun-loving companion.

But, more than the value of a bank vault’s contents is the power it represents. First, women like men who have power within society because there is a certain prestige in associating with a wealthy man; it makes a girl feel special in a crowd of regular people. With the companionship of a well-endowed man, women can be sure to forge their way into high society. Young women have much to look forward to; making an early appearance in society could make for a more auspicious future. Secondly, power is sexy. Women are innately attracted to power as if it were a pheromone.


There’s more to a wealthy man than his wallet. Younger women are attracted to wealthy men for their innate character traits, as well. In order to have accrued his weight in gold, a wealthy man must have superior work ethic and intelligence.

A man’s burgeoning bank account is also testament to his ability to make wise investments. Besides, women like men who work hard to advance themselves in their careers because it is evidence of prowess – which extends beyond the office and into the bedroom.

Young women seeking a father figure are also attracted to wealthy men. The Silver Fox is typically older, wiser, and because they are usually in positions of power, they are accustomed to giving the advice and guidance sought by women with less experience in life, in society and in finances. Finding a Sugar Daddy is like gaining a teacher.

These combined qualities amount to a man with confidence. If a smart man with business savvy has amassed wealth and understands the power of his dollar, he is sure to walk with squared shoulders and his chin held high. The posture makes for a good cologne advertisement, but also makes for a good date on the town and confidence during an intimate evening.

Why Would A Successful Man Use A Sugar Daddy Dating Site!!

Professional men use Sugar Daddy dating sites for a plethora of reasons. Sugar Daddy sites allow them to find young, attractive women within the limits of their busy schedules when stakes are high.

Professional men in important positions are busy while at work and they are equally busy working even when they are not at work. Given their burgeoning schedules and their spinning minds, these men don’t have a lot of time to devote to visiting bars and clubs for finding attractive companions. Online dating sites provide important men with the means to search for women both locally and abroad between business meetings and after a long day of work. Also, men like these do not like to waste time. Using online dating, they can make the most of taxi rides and airport delays by flirting with and winking at gorgeous girls on their Blackberries and iPhones.

High profile CEOs and important businessmen have a lot at stake and a lot to lose. They are judged by their competitors and associates based on the company they keep and the women with whom they are seen. So, these VIPs use Sugar Daddy dating sites because they know that they will find gorgeous girls with youthful spunk that hold their own reputations highly. Moreover, using a Sugar Daddy dating site allows these professionals to find beautiful girls without having to step foot in a strip club or other seedy late-night venue. Sugar Daddy dating provides a venue for a clean, honest search for a lovely lady.

Professional men, however, are not one-dimensional workhorses; many are married family men, as well. Yet, for some of these men, the spark has died at home and he is looking for a little treat on the side. Sugar Daddy dating provides a discreet way for overworked guys and wealthy benefactors to find some fun and off-set the stress of their office hours and home-lives. A relationship with a Sugar Baby is light, carefree, and typically short-term, giving these family men a brief flirtation with excitement without any long-term, binding repercussions. And, while cheating is nothing to condone, these men redeem some points with Karma for giving money and means toward the improvement of a Sugar Baby’s life.

Finally, professional men use Sugar Daddy dating sites because they know Sugar Babies will deliver. For men that mean business, putting effort into traditional sites may or may not yield results; however, Sugar Babies always pull through, saving Daddy some time – and if time is money, then he’s cashed in on a solid deal.

Editor's Note: For a complete list of all the Sugar Daddy Dating Sites we recommend, visit our sister site Alternative-Dating-Sites.com and it's Sugar Daddy section.

Why Would A Successful Man Use A Sugar Daddy Dating Site!!

Professional men use Sugar Daddy dating sites for a plethora of reasons. Sugar Daddy sites allow them to find young, attractive women within the limits of their busy schedules when stakes are high.

Professional men in important positions are busy while at work and they are equally busy working even when they are not at work. Given their burgeoning schedules and their spinning minds, these men don’t have a lot of time to devote to visiting bars and clubs for finding attractive companions. Online dating sites provide important men with the means to search for women both locally and abroad between business meetings and after a long day of work. Also, men like these do not like to waste time. Using online dating, they can make the most of taxi rides and airport delays by flirting with and winking at gorgeous girls on their Blackberries and iPhones.

High profile CEOs and important businessmen have a lot at stake and a lot to lose. They are judged by their competitors and associates based on the company they keep and the women with whom they are seen. So, these VIPs use Sugar Daddy dating sites because they know that they will find gorgeous girls with youthful spunk that hold their own reputations highly. Moreover, using a Sugar Daddy dating site allows these professionals to find beautiful girls without having to step foot in a strip club or other seedy late-night venue. Sugar Daddy dating provides a venue for a clean, honest search for a lovely lady.

Professional men, however, are not one-dimensional workhorses; many are married family men, as well. Yet, for some of these men, the spark has died at home and he is looking for a little treat on the side. Sugar Daddy dating provides a discreet way for overworked guys and wealthy benefactors to find some fun and off-set the stress of their office hours and home-lives. A relationship with a Sugar Baby is light, carefree, and typically short-term, giving these family men a brief flirtation with excitement without any long-term, binding repercussions. And, while cheating is nothing to condone, these men redeem some points with Karma for giving money and means toward the improvement of a Sugar Baby’s life.

Finally, professional men use Sugar Daddy dating sites because they know Sugar Babies will deliver. For men that mean business, putting effort into traditional sites may or may not yield results; however, Sugar Babies always pull through, saving Daddy some time – and if time is money, then he’s cashed in on a solid deal.

Editor's Note: For a complete list of all the Sugar Daddy Dating Sites we recommend, visit our sister site Alternative-Dating-Sites.com and it's Sugar Daddy section.

Sugar daddy History

Sugar daddy is a slang term for a rich man who offers money or gifts to a less rich younger person, usually female, in return for companionship or sexual favours. See Sugar daddy (slang).

James Henderson "Jimmy" Finlayson (August 27 1887 – October 9 1953) was a Scottish-American actor who worked in both silent and sound comedies. Bald, with a fake moustache, Finlayson had many trademark comic mannerisms and is famous for his squinting, outraged, "double take and fade away" head reaction, and characteristic expression "d'ooooooh", and as the most famous comic foil for Laurel and Hardy.

Arthur Stanley Jefferson (June 16, 1890 – February 23, 1965), better known as Stan Laurel, was an English comic actor, writer and Film Director, famous as the first half of the comedy double-act Laurel and Hardy, whose career stretched from the silent films of the early 20th century until after World War II.