Monday, October 11, 2010

Here, There, Sugars Everywhere



Lot’s of sugar daddies and sugar babies prefer certain areas for making arrangements more than others. One sugar baby says that after moving to LA from NYC, she noticed some differences between the women in both places:

“New York SB’s are much more sophisticated, wear darker clothes and usually have darker hair…” - Loni

While there are endless stereotypes about people in different places, there are certain places in Sugarworld with unique reputations…

Have you found a certain area/region where the sugar is sweeter?

What impressions do you get from sugars in different parts of the US or the word? Are you open to dating sugars outside of your country?

How’s the sugar been for you lately?

Tyra Banks Sugar Babies Reunion Stir


Many here have noticed Tyra’s apparent infatuation with online sugar daddy dating, especially during her shows’ most recent and finale season. Here’s how one sugar baby described her discovery of the Sugarbowl through Tyra’s repeats:

“It’s funny to see how Tyra reacts to the sugar lifestyle. You would think she’d be more familiar with the concept considering her own lifestyle, spending so much time around older wealthy men and young beautiful women who have lived the life most sugar babies can only dream of. I just want to thank the people on this blog for proving to me that there are indeed real, and compassionate people in this sugar world… wouldn’t necessarily know that after watching Tyra…” - Sugarberry04

What sugar topics are you most curious about? How to negotiate an arrangement? Fake SD’s or SB’s?

Sugar Daddy Relationships Gaining Respect, Drawing Envy

Sugar Daddy Relationships Gaining Respect, Drawing Envy

Sugar daddies have been receiving more recognition for their role in society than ever before, with more information about the real people who live the sugar lifestyle being shared and discussed online, inbooks, on TV, in the movies, and in hair salons and coffee shops.

It’s estimated that over 3 million sugar daddy and baby profiles have been created since 2007.

The fact that some women are seeking sugar daddies despite not having any financial need doesn’t come as a surprise to many here, but non-sugars are often unaware of how SD/SB relationships can be just as complex and varied as any other relationship configuration.

Why Sugar Daddies are ‘In’:

Billionaire Heiress Paris Hilton with her Malaysian Billionaire Sugar Daddy Taek Jho Low (on his yacht).

Showing Off Sugar Daddies: Even ‘self-made’ millionaires like Paris Hilton are finding sugar daddies to help make life a little sweeter. Paris’ new sugar daddy recently spent nearly $5 million on champagne for her and her friends.

College Degree’s Don’t Guarantee Financial Stability: While having a college degree is still a definite advantage in today’s workplace, it doesn’t always equate to a high paying job (especially if your degree has anything to do with kids…)

Perhaps the underlying reason behind much of societies contempt for the sugar lifestyle is envy. Sugar relationships are constantly being glamorized, vilified, sugar-coated and scapegoated, but the sugar phenomena is no trivial matter.

Do you think society gives fair treatment to those in sugar daddy relationships?

How would people you know really feel about your sugar-life if they knew about it? Would some of them be jealous?

How is your sugar daddy dating going?

You Never Know Who You’ll Meet on SA

“SeekingArrangement is like a box of chocolates … you never know what you’re gonna get, but you can bet it’s gonna be sweeeet.”SFSB

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SA Founder & CEO Brandon Wade with Tatyana at the SA Party, 8/04/2010

Dating people online can be full of surprises, perhaps even more so in the sugar dating world.

And as the founder of SeekingArrangement.com, I have from time to time used the sugar dating site as a Sugar Daddy. Like everyone, I have had my share of good and bad sugar experiences. Fortunately for me, it’s the good experiences that have been the most memorable. Over the past few years, I have been fortunate to meet some of the most amazing and interesting people, as well as celebrities in their own right.

Over a year ago, I asked a Sugar Babe out for dinner when I was in Las Vegas. She took me to LAX – the nightclub at the Luxor Casino – where she was a VIP hostess. Six months later, I found out she was one of Tiger Wood’s mistresses.

On my flight to Istanbul this past summer, I sat beside a multi-millionaire who is also one of Wall Street’s most well known fund managers. About halfway on our flight, he asked me what I did for a living, and after I told him I run SeekingArrangement.com, he revealed to me that he has been a Sugar Daddy member on the website for over 2 years and is a big fan.

I know for a fact that there are quite a few members of the Forbes’ 400 richest list on this website. A sugar baby once told me she met one of the founders of Skype through SA. Yet another told me she met a big time Hollywood producer. And as recently as a few weeks ago, another sugar baby told me she came across one of the richest men in the world here.

For this and many other reasons, I have titled this post: You never know who you’ll meet on SeekingArrangement.

I truly believe that there are many amazing, famous, and ultra-wealthy people lurking on the website, and if you have not found the one, I urge you to be patient and to start writing to all the other members out there, because while there may be some bad apples (just as there are anywhere else), there are also some amazingly wonderful catches out here…. on SeekingArrangement.com.

Are there any interesting people you have met through SeekingArrangement.com?

Rachel Uchitel Agrees to Strip for Playboy

Rachel Uchitel agrees to strip for Playboy…right now anyway. Rachel was asked Friday about the deal but she didn’t make much comment, leading to speculation about exactly what the deal entails. It’s a loose agreement… More pictures of Rachel after the tease…
With Rachel’s deal, she can back out anytime. So, if she gets cold feet or if Tiger Woods’ team hears about it and doesn’t like it, she can cancel without a contract penalty.

With Rachel’s deal, she can back out anytime. So, if she gets cold feet or if Tiger Woods’ team hears about it and doesn’t like it, she can cancel without a contract penalty.

A source close to the mag tells us Rachel has the right to pull out any time before the shoot goes down — which is in three weeks.

We’re also told Rachel won’t be baring it all — just the backside … and the topside.

No word on when the spread will run in the mag.

So, she is limited to what she will show, if she even shows at all! Rachel has a great deal there…I wonder how Hugh Hefner got his arm twisted in to this one! Rachel’s TV show must have gotten canned, but pictures always work! If Rachel does this, do you think it will be a popular issue?

For Love of Power

It’s not only money that attracts sugar babies to sugar daddies. If you can ask famous people who have had sugar daddys, they will tell you the same. These famous people already have money. And most of the time being famous is synonymous to being wealthy (not all the time, though).

So what else do you think is the reason why sugar babies are attracted to sugar daddies? The answer to that is power. Here in our world the more money you have the more powerful you are. And that’s why famous people who have had sugar daddys maintain a millionaire sugar daddy relationship. Having a powerful ally is good for one’s career, prestige, or influence.

Stars like Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas, Calista Flockhart and Harrison Ford, Celine Dion and her husband/manager, Rene Angelil are good examples of May-December relationships in Hollywood – or even TIGER WOODS!?? These couples’ unions are like the merger of two powerful clans, making them more powerful. You see, in Hollywood, there are a lot of potential sugar daddys to choose from. From big time veteran actors to production executives.

But how can a sugar baby outside of Tinseltown find her powerful sugar daddy? Easy. All you have to do is create a free profile at www.sugarsugar.com, in case you don’t have one yet, and start searching for the sugar daddy who can provide you with the influence you are looking for. Don’t forget, www.sugarsugar.com, the best sugar daddy dating site for you.

Wanted: Married Sugar Daddies

These days, gorgeous young women who want to make their lives easier look for a sugar daddy. Married sugar daddies are almost often the kind of sugar daddies these young women have a mutually beneficial relationship with.

A majority of the sugar babies engage in this kind of relationship for security purposes only. Some do it for love, and quite a handful are simply in lust. But whatever a young girl’s reason is, sugar daddy dating is happening everywhere and it is here to stay.

Now going back to sugar daddies. Married sugar daddies interested in extra marital dating are preferred by sugar babies because they are discreet. They won’t go around telling everybody that they are banging some sugar baby because they don’t want their wives to find out about it. Now if they start blathering about their extramarital activities after downing a bottle of Jack Daniels… that’s another story. But overall, married men are a lot more discreet since they have something to protect.

If you are a sugar baby looking for a discreet, mutually beneficial relationship with a sugar daddy, married sugar daddies are the best type you should go looking for. You can find a lot of them at www.sugarsugar.com. Search for them on this site.

One day I was asked by my cousin if I had a boyfriend. I told her that I “kinda” have a boyfriend. She looked puzzled by my answer, so I told her that I am into mutually beneficial relationships.

“What is a mutually beneficial relationship?” she asked. I don’t know if she would understand it without being totally judgmental. But I told her anyway, keeping my fingers crossed that she would understand. Luckily she did. And not only did she understand, but now she also wants to have a mutually beneficial relationship herself!

I asked my sugar daddy if he has other sugar daddy friends whom he can introduce my cousin to. So when we went on a double date with my sugar daddy’s friend, things went smoothly. In fact, my cousin and the sugar daddy were inseperable that night. I think they hit it off quite well.

One time, I saw my cousin in front of her computer looking at a sugar daddy website. She told me that we should sign up and get a free profile there. She told me that if our mutually beneficial relationships didn’t work out well, this site would be our fall back. There are a lot of sugar daddies in there looking for sugar babies. And I think there’s no harm in having a fall back so we signed up. A day after creating our profiles, we already got messages from a number of sugar daddies.

It’s quite funny how things turned out. I was afraid my cousin would find out about my sugar daddy relationship and judge me harshly for it. Now, we’re both in mutually beneficial relationships and enjoying them. I asked my cousin again, “what is a mutually beneficial relationship to her?” She proudly answered, “It’s about getting the things that you want.”

Most of members already transfered to another sugar daddy dating site called sugarsugar.com because it has more profiles than sugardaddyforme.
is a ratio of 8:1 sugar babies to sugar daddies. Having 8 sugar babies for every sugar daddy is not bad at all. Actually it’s too much. I myself only need one sugar baby because I’m focusing more on quality than quantity.

My other buddies, on the other hand, are having the time of their lives getting as many sugar babies as they can get. For them, more is better. My friends are a bunch of show offs. They just want to parade their sugar babies so that some colleagues of ours find themselves drooling with envy.